Take Control: 10 Tips to Play Offense in Your Case

by Wendy R Hernandez

Feb 21, 2025

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Too often, people let the other side dictate their custody case. They react to accusations, scramble to respond to motions, and spend energy defending themselves. But here’s the thing: reacting isn’t winning.

If you want the best outcome for your child, you need to stop playing defense and start playing offense. This is YOUR case. It’s time to take control and do it YOUR way. Here are 10 actionable tips to help you shift from reacting to leading:

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Take Control: 10 Tips to Play Offense in Your Case

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