In the next five videos I am going to give you some information on alternatives for settling your case outside of the courtroom.
Without a doubt it's better for you to take your own life into your own hands and resolve the case if possible with your ex-partner outside the courtroom. If you don't settle your case then what's going to happen is you're going to end up in front of a stranger a judge who's going to make decisions about your life and maybe the life of your children, your future financial life after having heard about the history of your case over just a few hours.
In extreme cases maybe you'll get a day or two or maybe three but that's still not a lot of time. The judge is still a stranger and it's still scary in my mind to have a stranger making those decisions. I want to help empower you to take your life into your own hands and look at these strategies. So the first strategy I want to talk to you about is just writing letters....